Thinking of hosting an event?
Creating the perfect dinner party, brunch or lunch can be exciting, but in equal measures daunting too, right? Especially if the guest list includes strangers. But before you write it off, consider this: hosting isn’t just about planning a gathering; it’s an opportunity to create connections, foster belonging, and maybe even surprise yourself with how much fun it can be!
Here are some of the best reasons why hosting an event, even with strangers, is worth the effort:
1. A chance to break-out of your comfort zone
Hosting an event forces you to step into a new social dynamic, which can be both exhilarating and rewarding. It's a chance to challenge yourself, build confidence, and embrace a little unpredictability—because that’s where the magic happens.
Bonus: You'll likely discover you're much better at it than you expected.
2. Share (show-off 😝) your passions
Love baking? Table décor? A movie buff? Obsessed with board games? Hosting gives you the perfect excuse to share your interests with others. It’s a great way to attract like-minded people and bond over your favourite activities.
3. It’s surprisingly fun
Yes, hosting requires a bit of effort, but the rewards far outweigh the work. Seeing people enjoy themselves, hearing laughter fill the room, and knowing you helped create those moments? That’s pure joy.
4. Build new-found friendships
Let a friend bring a friend you’ve not met yet – strangers are simply that; a potential friend you haven’t met yet. Hosting creates a relaxed space for people to connect, share experiences, and discover common ground. You might just find that the people who show up become your closest allies or part of a larger social network.
Tips for hosting:
Keep it casual: A low-pressure environment helps everyone feel at ease.
Encourage interaction: Have everyone bring something with them; you can even assign them a course to bring, or board game to keep the entertainment going.
Be welcoming: A warm smile and genuine enthusiasm set the tone for the event.
Consider a theme: rework the original Cluedo into something of your own; Friday games night, Parisian brunch (fresh croissants, French toast 😋), or a Super Bowl watch party
Hosting events might sound bold, but it’s a unique way to grow your social circle, and learn about others. Who knows? The strangers at your event could turn into lifelong friends, or even that future wife or husband you’re looking for. So, why not give it a go? 🌟